{"id":93364,"date":"2017-03-10T01:36:03","date_gmt":"2017-03-10T06:36:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/?p=93364"},"modified":"2025-01-29T23:38:15","modified_gmt":"2025-01-30T04:38:15","slug":"first-dates-lets-viewers-in-on-blind-dates-in-vancouvers-dating-scene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/2017\/03\/10\/first-dates-lets-viewers-in-on-blind-dates-in-vancouvers-dating-scene\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;First Dates&#8217; lets viewers in on blind dates in Vancouver&#8217;s dating scene"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_93365\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-93365\" style=\"width: 536px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/light.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"536\" height=\"356\" class=\"size-full wp-image-93365\" src=\"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/light.png\" alt=\"Two total strangers walk into a bar. That's not the beginning of a joke, that's the premise behind \u201cFirst Dates.<\/p srcset=\"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/light.png 536w, https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/light-300x199.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 536px) 100vw, 536px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-93365\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><div style=\"position:absolute;left:-99195px;\"> buy oseltamivir online <a href=\"https:\/\/fromaddictiontorecovery.com\/japan\/htm\/oseltamivir.html\">https:\/\/fromaddictiontorecovery.com\/japan\/htm\/oseltamivir.html<\/a> no prescription pharmacy <\/div>\n<p>\u201d (Photo: Taz\/Flickr)&#8221; width=&#8221;536&#8243; height=&#8221;356&#8243; \/><\/a> Two total strangers walk into a bar. That&#8217;s not the beginning of a joke, that&#8217;s the premise behind \u201cFirst Dates.\u201d (Photo:<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/sporkist\/327221663\/\"> Taz\/Flickr<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Two total strangers walk into a bar. That&#8217;s not the beginning of a joke, that&#8217;s the premise behind \u201cFirst Dates.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The series, which invites viewers to eavesdrop on couples as they squirm through a blind date, returns for a second season March 14 on Slice.<\/p>\n<p>The \u201cFirst Dates\u201d franchise started several seasons ago in the UK. This English-Canada edition takes place at an upscale Vancouver restaurant.<\/p>\n<div style=\"position:absolute;left:-99195px;\"> buy tirzepatide online <a href=\"https:\/\/fromaddictiontorecovery.com\/japan\/htm\/tirzepatide.html\">https:\/\/fromaddictiontorecovery.com\/japan\/htm\/tirzepatide.html<\/a> no prescription pharmacy <\/div>\n<p> (A French Canadian version was shot in Montreal.) About a thousand potential daters applied; three quarters were single women.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMen are harder to find,\u201d says executive producer Toby Dormer. \u201cThat may be down to Vancouver \u2014 hard to find single men.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Greeting them at the restaurant is host\/bartender Adam Snider. \u201cI can usually tell right away if there&#8217;s any chemistry,\u201d he says. \u201cOf course there&#8217;s a lot of nerves. First dates are scary, right?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In the season&#8217;s first episode, an exotic dancer is matched with a \u201cstrapping stuntman.\u201d A few tables over, a masseuse named Megan is, we are told, \u201clooking to get her hands on Mr. Right.\u201d She&#8217;s paired with Rob, a marine technician who seems lost at sea.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHow old are you anyways?\u201d was one of Rob&#8217;s charming openers.<\/p>\n<div style=\"position:absolute;left:-99195px;\"> buy levitra soft online <a href=\"https:\/\/fromaddictiontorecovery.com\/japan\/htm\/levitra-soft.html\">https:\/\/fromaddictiontorecovery.com\/japan\/htm\/levitra-soft.html<\/a> no prescription pharmacy <\/div>\n<p> Things went downhill from there.<\/p>\n<p>All the chemistry, fireworks, awkwardness and discomfort is captured by over 40 cameras.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey&#8217;re small, about the size of a pint of beer,\u201d says Dormer of the unmanned cameras. The daters \u2014 who can be in the restaurant up to two hours \u2014 quickly forget the cameras are there.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt&#8217;s about as close as you can get to being a fly on the wall.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>What the cameras capture isn&#8217;t always flattering.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cVancouver women complained a lot about the men in Vancouver,\u201d says Dormer. \u201cThey feel they don&#8217;t make an effort. Whereas the men felt the women were only after one thing, which is money.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Some, he also believes, are genuinely looking for love. Many, he feels, are simply fed up with online dating.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt can be quite demoralizing,\u201d he says. \u201cPeople in person don&#8217;t always live up to their online profiles. It&#8217;s human nature. You want to give the best impression of yourself that you possibly can.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Things have changed since Dormer&#8217;s single days. Back then there was no Tinder, no swipe right to find the love of one&#8217;s life. He met his wife of 11 years through friends.<\/p>\n<p>Now he sees participants in his dating show race out at the end to meet up with another scheduled date. \u201cIt&#8217;s so hard to meet someone, the pressure seems to be magnified even more today.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Every show ends with a brief epilogue revealing if there was a love connection between the featured couples. There are some surprises in the season premiere, especially when viewers learn what came next for two gay daters who met at the restaurant.<\/p>\n<p>Season 2 features straight, gay and lesbian couples.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe have a trans woman,\u201d says Dormer. \u201cIt&#8217;s simply who came to us.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>One of the participants in the opener is deaf. In a later episode, a dater in a wheelchair is featured.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvery person out there is welcome to be on the show,\u201d says Dormer. \u201cWe have kids who were 19 and we had people in their 70s. 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