{"id":216815,"date":"2019-05-31T03:00:21","date_gmt":"2019-05-31T07:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/?p=216815"},"modified":"2019-06-01T02:40:50","modified_gmt":"2019-06-01T06:40:50","slug":"pangarap-so-our-journey-begins-tanong-no-10","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/2019\/05\/31\/pangarap-so-our-journey-begins-tanong-no-10\/","title":{"rendered":"Pangarap:  So, Our Journey Begins Tanong No. 10"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_216816\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-216816\" style=\"width: 4288px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/jed-owen-648999-unsplash.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-216816\" src=\"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/jed-owen-648999-unsplash.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"4288\" height=\"2848\" srcset=\"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/jed-owen-648999-unsplash.jpg 4288w, https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/jed-owen-648999-unsplash-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/jed-owen-648999-unsplash-768x510.jpg 768w, https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/jed-owen-648999-unsplash-1024x680.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 4288px) 100vw, 4288px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-216816\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Yet, packing your bags is the easiest thing to accomplish when you are leaving,\u00a0 whether it is for good or for a long period of time, or may be even for a vacation. (Photo: Jed Owen\/Unsplash)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Tanong No. 10 HANDA KA NA BA?<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Sabi-Sabi:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Boy Scouts lang ang laging handa.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Iba-iba ang kakayahan ng tao upang maging handa o masabing sila ay handa.<\/p>\n<p>I remember, when we were leaving for abroad,\u00a0 isang taon yata akong nag-empake ng gamit. Pero hanggang sa the night before kami umalis, nag-eempake pa rin ako.\u00a0 Yet, packing your bags is the easiest thing to accomplish when you are leaving,\u00a0 whether it is for good or for a long period of time, or may be even for a vacation.<\/p>\n<p>The emotional preparedness is probably one of the hardest things to hurdle.\u00a0 Ang hirap ihanda ang\u00a0 ating puso at diwa.\u00a0 Ang utak ay maaaring turuan, pero hindi ang nararamdaman ng puso, ang isinisigaw ng diwa.\u00a0 Nothing comes easy. But nothing is impossible.<\/p>\n<p>Kung confident ka sa maraming aspeto ng iyong desisyon at masusi ang iyong naging paghahanda lalo na sa pagiging well-informed,\u00a0 lahat nang \u2018yan ay maaaring pag-aralan.\u00a0 Sabi ko nga before,\u00a0 lahat ng bagay ay isang desisyon lang.\u00a0 You can decide to be happy. You can decide to try and make it.<\/p>\n<p>Para sa akin, ang punto ng paghahanda ay hindi lamang sa haharapin, kundi para pa rin sa mga iiwanan at lalayuan.\u00a0 Kailangang maging handa ang iyong mga kamag-anak o kaibigang iiwanang tanggapin ang iyong desisyon.\u00a0 Kailangang alam nila na ok ka at confident kang mapagtatagumpayan mo ito. Kasi kung tunay silang nagmamahal sa iyo,\u00a0 hindi rin sila matatahimik \u2018pag nakikitang malungkot ka at hindi nagtatagumpay.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Mabigat ang desisyong umalis.\u00a0 Nguni\u2019t mas mabigat\u00a0 ang\u00a0 aspeto ng paghahanda<\/p>\n<p>Ngunit kung magtulong-tulong ang bawa\u2019t miyembro pamilya or even mga kaibigan mo lang, walang imposibleng harapin.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Ang Totoo:\u00a0\u00a0 Mahirap masabing handa ka na.\u00a0 You can never be completely prepared. Just as you can never say enough will never be enough. But if you had done your homework, ika nga, dapat may tiwala kang everything, if not, most things,\u00a0 will be all right.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>( <em>Abangan sa susunod na isyu: Ang pagbabahagi ng ikalawang aklat ng Taglish version ng Pangarap Series. Sa pangalawang aklat, layunin kong mailarawan ang tamis ng tagumpay sa likod ng pangangarap nating makapangibang-bansa, at kung paano makakamit ang minimithi gamit ang determinasyon, kababaang-loob at pagharap sa riyalidad.)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>_________________________________________<\/p>\n<p><strong>(Bolet is a marketing communications practitioner and dabbles in writing as a personal passion. She is author-publisher of the book:\u00a0 <em>The Most Practical Immigrating and Job Hunting Survival Guide, proven simple steps to success without the fears and the doubts. <\/em>book is available in Amazon.com, Barnes &amp; Noble, Chapters\/Indigo, the Reading Room and other online bookshops worldwide.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Please check out<em>\u00a0<\/em><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/author\/boletarevalo\"><strong><em>https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/author\/boletarevalo<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong>)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tanong No. 10 HANDA KA NA BA? Sabi-Sabi:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Boy Scouts lang ang laging handa. 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