{"id":203636,"date":"2019-02-24T01:02:05","date_gmt":"2019-02-24T06:02:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/?p=203636"},"modified":"2019-02-24T01:05:05","modified_gmt":"2019-02-24T06:05:05","slug":"a-warm-embrace-for-grieving-parents-at-funeral-of-seven-young-fire-victims","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/2019\/02\/24\/a-warm-embrace-for-grieving-parents-at-funeral-of-seven-young-fire-victims\/","title":{"rendered":"A ‘warm embrace’ for grieving parents at funeral of seven young fire victims"},"content":{"rendered":"
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But the overwhelming devastation of losing seven children in one night \u2013 from an infant baby to a teenager \u2013 hung heavy over the funeral. (File Photo<\/a>: Ummah Masjid And Community Center\/Facebook<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

HALIFAX \u2013 One by one, seven small white caskets were carried inside a cavernous waterfront hall on Saturday, where thousands of mourners gathered for an emotional embrace of grieving parents who lost their children in a devastating house fire.<\/p>\n

Seven black hearses lined up under the cold winter sun, the caskets brought inside the Cunard Centre by an honour guard.<\/p>\n

As they filled a stage, a heartrending sobbing could be heard, the anguish of a woman who lost all of her children in Tuesday’s fast-moving fire, and whose husband was in hospital being treated for severe burns.<\/p>\n

Mourners offered love and support to Kawthar Barho, who arrived in Canada with her family 18 months ago as Syrian refugees.<\/p>\n

But the overwhelming devastation of losing seven children in one night \u2013 from an infant baby to a teenager \u2013 hung heavy over the funeral.<\/p>\n

\u201cI’ve done many funerals but nothing like this, so please bear with me,\u201d an overwhelmed Sheikh Hamza said as he offered the ceremony’s English sermon.<\/p>\n

More than 2,000 people attended the two-hour service, with every seat filled and hundreds more people standing.<\/p>\n

Imam Abdallah Yousri said he hoped opening the ceremony to the public would allow Barho to see the entire community had been united in sympathy.<\/p>\n

\u201cOn what is our darkest day, we see the best of humanity when we look out into the sea of faces in front of us,\u201d said Natalie Horne, vice-president of the community group that sponsored the Barhos’ refugee claim.<\/p>\n

\u201cOur lives were enriched as a result of our relationship with you and your children,\u201d Horne told Barho through tears. \u201cWe love them and we love you.\u201d<\/p>\n

Many of those gathered openly wept when the children’s names were read: Teenager Ahmad; Rola, 12; Mohamad, 9; Ola, 8; Hala, 3; Rana, 2; and Abdullah, who was born in Canada on Nov. 9.<\/p>\n

\u201cTogether our community will find ways to honour your memories,\u201d the city’s deputy mayor, Tony Mancini, said after reading the names.<\/p>\n

\u201cI encourage each of you to use the sadness we share as a community to fuel acts of love and kindness towards our family, friends and neighbours.\u201d<\/p>\n

It was a common theme throughout the funeral \u2013 a desire for the tragedy to lead to love and unity.<\/p>\n

\u201cLife is short and temporary. Live it the best way possible,\u201d Hamza said.<\/p>\n

Nova Scotia deputy premier Karen Casey told Barho \u201cwe will not abandon you. We will not leave you alone.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cPlease accept our love,\u201d Casey said. \u201cPlease accept our warm embrace.\u201d<\/p>\n

Halifax MP Andy Fillmore told Barho the community would be there for her in the hard times to come. But he acknowledged it’s family that brings the greatest comfort, and said the federal government is trying to bring her overseas relatives to Canada quickly.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe are working as hard as we can to get your family here as quickly as possible so they can be by your side,\u201d Fillmore said.<\/p>\n

Mourners, Muslim and non-Muslim alike, said they came because they had been deeply affected by the tragedy, and wanted to show their support for Barho as she faced unimaginable grief.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe doesn’t know me, I don’t know her, but I know I’m here. And she’s our family \u2013 their whole family is our family. I want to be here for all of them,\u201d Cindy Samson said in an interview.<\/p>\n

Adnan Aboushahla said it was a \u201cshock for anyone \u2013 not only for Muslim people, but for Christians and other religions,\u201d to witness such a tragedy.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe want to do whatever we can \u2013 either give support, money, feelings, this grief,\u201d said Aboushahla.<\/p>\n

Following the funeral service, the combined honour guards of Halifax Regional Fire and Emergency and Halifax Regional Police carried each coffin back outside, one at a time, to the waiting hearses. There was to be a burial at a Muslim cemetery in Hammonds Plains following the funeral.<\/p>\n

Peter Andrews, Halifax fire deputy chief of operations, said it was a \u201chuge honour to be invited to participate in this family’s darkest day.\u201d<\/p>\n

He said none of the firefighters that responded to the horrific blaze were part of the funeral’s honour guard.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe put on a brave face today,\u201d he said. \u201cWe’ll grieve in our own way in the weeks ahead.\u201d<\/p>\n

The children’s father, Ebraheim Barho, remained in hospital Friday recovering from extensive burns. He was in critical, but stable condition.<\/p>\n

The cause of the blaze in the Halifax suburb of Spryfield early Tuesday remains unclear.<\/p>\n

Mourner Tareq Hadhad, a Syrian refugee who founded Peace by Chocolate in Nova Scotia, said it is hard for the parents to handle all the pain by themselves.<\/p>\n

\u201cI would say it’s the most devastating period that I have ever lived, even though we lost family members back home in Syria. The loss of seven kids at once really has had a very devastating impact on the entire community here,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n

Mourner Mouna Manna praised the outpouring of support, and said the mother’s burden is unimaginable.<\/p>\n

\u201cI don’t even know where to begin to imagine how this would be, to lose not one or two but seven of them all at once … it’s a huge, huge devastation,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

The scale of the tragedy for the young family that arrived in Nova Scotia in the fall of 2017 as refugees has struck a chord with Canadians.<\/p>\n

A GoFundMe campaign had raised about $585,000 by Saturday evening.<\/p>\n

The Barho family lived in Elmsdale, a 30-minute drive north of Halifax, when they first arrived in Nova Scotia, and were embraced by residents there.<\/p>\n

They moved to the Halifax suburb of Spryfield to take advantage of language training and other immigrant services, and had planned to return to Elmsdale next month.<\/p>\n

The family was among 1,795 Syrian refugees who have come to Nova Scotia in recent years. The Trudeau government granted asylum to 40,000 Syrian refugees in 2015-16.<\/p>\n

A brutal civil war has raged across Syria since 2011, claiming more than 400,000 lives.<\/p>\n

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