{"id":160494,"date":"2018-04-18T03:12:40","date_gmt":"2018-04-18T07:12:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/?p=160494"},"modified":"2018-04-18T03:12:40","modified_gmt":"2018-04-18T07:12:40","slug":"barbara-bush-brought-plainspoken-grandmotherly-style-to-dc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/2018\/04\/18\/barbara-bush-brought-plainspoken-grandmotherly-style-to-dc\/","title":{"rendered":"Barbara Bush brought plainspoken, grandmotherly style to DC"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Mrs. Bush died Tuesday, according to a statement from family spokesman Jim McGrath. She was 92. (Photo By David Valdez, White House Photo Office – https:\/\/www.loc.gov\/pictures\/item\/89715766\/, Public Domain<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

HOUSTON \u2014 Barbara Bush didn’t hesitate to tell people that her trademark pearl necklaces were fake. Americans liked that everything else about the snowy-haired first lady was real.<\/p>\n

The wife of the nation’s 41st president and mother of the 43rd brought a plainspoken, grandmotherly style to buttoned-down Washington, displaying an utter lack of vanity about her white hair and wrinkles.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhat you see with me is what you get. I’m not running for president \u2014 George Bush is,\u201d she said at the 1988 Republican National Convention, where her husband, then vice-president, was nominated to succeed Ronald Reagan.<\/p>\n

Mrs. Bush died Tuesday, according to a statement from family spokesman Jim McGrath. She was 92.<\/p>\n

The Bushes, who were married on Jan. 6, 1945, had the longest marriage of any presidential couple in American history. And Mrs. Bush was one of only two first ladies who had a child who was elected president. The other was Abigail Adams, wife of John Adams and mother of John Quincy Adams.<\/p>\n

\u201cI had the best job in America,\u201d she wrote in a 1994 memoir describing her time in the White House. \u201cEvery single day was interesting, rewarding, and sometimes just plain fun.\u201d<\/p>\n

The publisher’s daughter and oilman’s wife could be caustic in private, but her public image was that of a self-sacrificing, supportive spouse who referred to her husband as her \u201chero.\u201d<\/p>\n

In the White House, \u201cyou need a friend, someone who loves you, who’s going to say, ‘You are great,\u201d’ Mrs. Bush said in a 1992 television interview.<\/p>\n

Her uncoiffed, matronly appearance often provoked jokes that she looked more like the boyish president’s mother than his wife. Late-night comedians quipped that her bright white hair and pale features also imparted an uncanny resemblance to George Washington.<\/p>\n

Eight years after leaving the nation’s capital, Mrs. Bush stood with her husband as their son George W. was sworn in as president. They returned four years later when he won a second term. Unlike Mrs. Bush, Abigail Adams did not live to see her son’s inauguration. She died in 1818, six years before John Quincy Adams was elected.<\/p>\n

Mrs. Bush insisted she did not try to influence her husband’s politics.<\/p>\n

\u201cI don’t fool around with his office,\u201d she said, \u201cand he doesn’t fool around with my household.\u201d<\/p>\n

In 1984, her quick wit got her into trouble when she was quoted as referring to Geraldine Ferraro, the Democratic vice-presidential nominee at the time, as \u201cthat $4 million \u2014 I can’t say it, but it rhymes with rich.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cIt was dumb of me. I shouldn’t have said it,\u201d Mrs. Bush acknowledged in 1988. \u201cIt was not attractive, and I’ve been very shamed. I apologized to Mrs. Ferraro, and I would apologize again.\u201d<\/p>\n

Daughter-in-law Laura Bush, another first lady, said Mrs. Bush was \u201cferociously tart-tongued\u201d from the start.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe’s never shied away from saying what she thinks. … She’s managed to insult nearly all of my friends with one or another perfectly timed acerbic comment,\u201d Laura Bush said in her 2010 book, \u201cSpoken from the Heart.\u201d<\/p>\n

In her 1994 autobiography, \u201cBarbara Bush: A Memoir,\u201d she said she did her best to keep her opinions from the public while her husband was in office. But she revealed that she disagreed with him on two issues: She supported legal abortion and opposed the sale of assault weapons.<\/p>\n

\u201cI honestly felt, and still feel, the elected person’s opinion is the one the public has the right to know,\u201d Mrs. Bush wrote.<\/p>\n

She also disclosed a bout with depression in the mid-1970s, saying she sometimes feared she would deliberately crash her car. She blamed hormonal changes and stress.<\/p>\n

\u201cNight after night, George held me weeping in his arms while I tried to explain my feelings,\u201d she wrote. \u201cI almost wonder why he didn’t leave me.\u201d<\/p>\n

She said she snapped out of it in a few months.<\/p>\n

Mrs. Bush raised five children: George W., Jeb, Neil, Marvin and Dorothy. A sixth child, 3-year-old daughter Robin, died of leukemia in 1953.<\/p>\n

In a speech in 1985, she recalled the stress of raising a family while married to a man whose ambitions carried him from the Texas oil fields to Congress and then into influential political positions that included ambassador to the United Nations, GOP chairman and CIA director.<\/p>\n

\u201cThis was a period, for me, of long days and short years,\u201d she said, \u201cof diapers, runny noses, earaches, more Little League games than you could believe possible, tonsils and those unscheduled races to the hospital emergency room, Sunday school and church, of hours of urging homework or short chubby arms around your neck and sticky kisses.\u201d<\/p>\n

Along the way, she said, there were also \u201cbumpy moments \u2014 not many, but a few \u2014 of feeling that I’d never, ever be able to have fun again and coping with the feeling that George Bush, in his excitement of starting a small company and travelling around the world, was having a lot of fun.\u201d<\/p>\n

In 2003, she wrote a follow-up memoir, \u201cReflections: Life After the White House.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI made no apologies for the fact that I still live a life of ease,\u201d she wrote. \u201cThere is a difference between ease and leisure. I live the former and not the latter.\u201d<\/p>\n

Along with her memoirs, she wrote \u201cC. Fred’s Story\u201d and \u201cMillie’s Book,\u201d based on the lives of her dogs. Proceeds from the books benefited adult and family literacy programs. Laura Bush, a former teacher with a master’s degree in library science, continued her mother-in-law’s literacy campaign in the White House.<\/p>\n

The 43rd president was not the only Bush son to seek office in the 1990s. In 1994, when George W. was elected governor of Texas, son Jeb narrowly lost to incumbent Lawton Chiles in Florida. Four years later, Jeb was victorious in his second try in Florida.<\/p>\n

\u201cThis is a testament to what wonderful parents they are,\u201d George W. Bush said as Jeb Bush was sworn into office. Jeb won a second term in 2002, and then made an unsuccessful bid for the Republican presidential nomination in 2016.<\/p>\n

Sons Marvin and Neil both became businessmen. Neil achieved some notoriety in the 1980s as a director of a savings and loan that crashed. Daughter Dorothy, or Doro, has preferred to stay out of the spotlight. She married lobbyist Robert Koch, a Democrat, in 1992.<\/p>\n

In a collection of letters published in 1999, George H.W. Bush included a note he gave to his wife in early 1994.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou have given me joy that few men know,\u201d he wrote. \u201cYou have made our boys into men by bawling them out and then, right away, by loving them. You have helped Doro to be the sweetest, greatest daughter in the whole wide world. I have climbed perhaps the highest mountain in the world, but even that cannot hold a candle to being Barbara’s husband.\u201d<\/p>\n

Mrs. Bush was born Barbara Pierce in Rye, New York. Her father was the publisher of McCall’s and Redbook magazines. After attending Smith College for two years, she married young naval aviator George Herbert Walker Bush. She was 19.<\/p>\n

After World War II, the Bushes moved to the Texas oil patch to seek their fortune and raise a family. It was there that Bush began his political career, representing Houston for two terms in Congress in the late 1960s and early 1970s.<\/p>\n

In all, the Bushes made more than two dozen moves that circled half the globe before landing at the White House in 1989. During the next four years, opinion polls often gave her approval ratings that exceeded her husband’s.<\/p>\n

The couple’s final move, after Bush lost the 1992 election to Bill Clinton, was to Houston, where they built what she termed their \u201cdream house\u201d in an affluent neighbourhood. The Bush family also had an oceanfront summer home in Kennebunkport, Maine.<\/p>\n

After retiring to Houston, the Bushes helped raise funds for charities and appeared frequently at events such as Houston Astros baseball games. Public schools in the Houston area are named for both of them.<\/p>\n

In 1990, Barbara Bush gave the commencement address at all-women Wellesley College, though some had protested her selection because she was prominent only through the achievements of her husband. Her speech that day was rated by a survey of scholars in 1999 as one of the top 100 speeches of the century.<\/p>\n

\u201cCherish your human connections,\u201d Mrs. Bush told graduates. \u201cAt the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, winning one more verdict or not closing one more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a child, a friend or a parent.\u201d<\/p>\n

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