{"id":135144,"date":"2017-11-30T02:11:47","date_gmt":"2017-11-30T07:11:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/?p=135144"},"modified":"2017-11-30T02:11:47","modified_gmt":"2017-11-30T07:11:47","slug":"post-weinstein-lauer-a-reckoning-for-fans-of-fallen-heroes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/canadianinquirer.net\/v1\/2017\/11\/30\/post-weinstein-lauer-a-reckoning-for-fans-of-fallen-heroes\/","title":{"rendered":"Post Weinstein, Lauer: A reckoning for fans of fallen heroes"},"content":{"rendered":"
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When it comes to fandom, it’s reckoning time for Matt Lauer, Garrison Keillor and scores of other men accused of sexual wrongdoing. (Photo<\/a>: Matt Lauer\/Facebook<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

NEW YORK \u2014 When it comes to fandom, it’s reckoning time for Matt Lauer, Garrison Keillor and scores of other men accused of sexual wrongdoing.<\/p>\n

Hero celebrities have fallen before \u2014 Bill Cosby’s career ended after assault allegations in 2014 \u2014 but never in the rapid succession that has rocked so many worlds since revelations about Harvey Weinstein exploded in October. Accusers of politicians, actors, comedians, singers, producers, directors, other media powerhouses and assorted business moguls have taken the power and fans of the disgraced have largely stood with the wronged.<\/p>\n

But for some, giving up heroes isn’t easy.<\/p>\n

Savannah Guthrie, in breaking the news Wednesday on NBC’s \u201cToday\u201d show about Lauer’s firing over \u201cinappropriate sexual behaviour\u201d with a colleague, appeared to be on the verge of tears.<\/p>\n

\u201cHow do you reconcile your love for someone with the revelation that they have behaved badly, and I don’t know the answer to that,\u201d she said. \u201cBut I do know that this reckoning that so many organizations have been going through is important, it’s long overdue and it must result in workplaces where all women \u2014 all people \u2014 feel safe and respected.\u201d<\/p>\n

Paul Booth, an associate professor of media and cinema studies in the College of Communication at DePaul University in Chicago, said some fans derive a piece of their identity from those they admire.<\/p>\n

\u201cCertainly to a lot of fans, fandom feels like something that you almost don’t have control over, that what you’re a fan of is part of who you are as a person,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n

On social media and around the dinner table, many fans are in mourning. But in the Arizona border town of Douglas, 37-year-old Nubia Romo isn’t ready to dump Lauer.<\/p>\n

\u201cOh my goodness, I’ve woken up to the ‘Today’ show for years. It’s so, so, so sad. My mother is really sad, too, but we don’t have his side of the story,\u201d said Romo, who is studying to become a real estate agent.<\/p>\n

Booth’s academic focus includes fan mentality, along with the social media hive mind. While Romo said she was shocked that Lauer would be accused, hardcore fans, including those of Lauer but also of Louis C.K. and Kevin Spacey, may have had an inkling of rumoured transgressions beforehand, choosing in the past to let the negative slide until allegations were pushed into full view, he said.<\/p>\n

\u201cFor many fans, these are not necessarily new stories,\u201d Booth said. \u201cOne of the things about being a fan is that you learn the minutiae of a star. Although some of these stories are just coming out in the mainstream media, they have been circulating in fan circles for a while. Rumours about Kevin Spacey have been out and about in fan conversations for many years. Certainly Louis C.K.’s misconduct and harassment has been jokingly referred to by a lot of fans.\u201d<\/p>\n

Letting go of longtime heroes can be a process, said Booth, other pop culture experts and women’s rights activists.<\/p>\n

\u201cI think all of us are going to struggle with people who we looked up to and have done really good things,\u201d said Linda Sarsour, co-chair of this year’s Women’s March in Washington. \u201cI can think of people like Al Franken and John Conyers and I’m so hurt and disappointed, but we’re going to have to reckon with the issue and how it’s impacted the victims and not our personal heroes.\u201d<\/p>\n

The range of emotions among fans of Louis C.K. and the more recently accused \u2014 Lauer, Charlie Rose and Keillor \u2014 among so many others, continued to flow Wednesday.<\/p>\n

Susan Scharf, a 69-year-old retired teacher in suburban New York, said she’s a longtime Lauer fan and was \u201cvery, very shocked and disappointed,\u201d echoing what others also have pondered: \u201cI thought he was a nice guy. As a woman, I can’t support him now.\u201d<\/p>\n

In Royal Oak, Michigan, Lauer fan Amy Hurley, a 45-year-old administrative assistant for General Motors, put it more succinctly: \u201cIs every man a hypocrite?\u201d<\/p>\n

Outrage, sadness, frustration, shock and the craving to gather and share are common denominators among fans.<\/p>\n

On Twitter, one angsty Louis C.K. die-hard in Egypt, using the handle ?MilanistaFito, relied on the fictional Showtime series \u201cThe Affair\u201d and the character Dr. Vic Ullah to help him articulate:<\/p>\n

\u201cI remember that scene from The Affair where a character says, ‘If you think, on balance, that the good I do outweighs the bad, I’m a good person. If you think the bad outweighs the good, the opposite is true.’ And I believe that the good C.K. does outweighs the bad.\u201d<\/p>\n

Thousands of miles away, continents collided in the brain of comedian Sarah Silverman, Louise C.K.’s friend of 25 years, when she broke her silence in an emotional monologue before an episode of her Hulu talk show, \u201cI Love You, America.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cSome of our heroes will be taken down, and we will discover bad things about people we like, or in some cases, people we love,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

While thousands stand with accusers and wish Lauer and others who have toppled a bitter farewell, Hilari Vires, of Scottsburg, Indiana, feels as Romo does about one of the big faces of \u201cToday.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI honestly think that people should not judge or hate on him until there is proof regarding the accusations,\u201d she said. \u201cEven if he did the things he’s accused of, I don’t think he’s a bad or evil person.\u201d<\/p>\n

Bridget Borisonek, 42, of St. Paul, Minnesota, is a huge Keillor fan. She has listened to his former radio show, \u201cA Prairie Home Companion,\u201d for 20 years and has seen the show live several times.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to trust public figures. I want to trust somebody who leads what is essentially wholesome family\u00a0entertainment,\u201d she said. \u201cTremendous disappointment. And like almost a sense of loss. \u201c<\/p>\n

The process for some looking in from the outside as non-fans is void of heartbreak.<\/p>\n

\u201cSorry to straight people who keep finding out their heroes suck but you should’ve listened to gays and worshipped 52-year-old actresses who specialize in monologues about their crumbling marriage,\u201d tweeted comedy writer,\u00a0entertainment\u00a0journalist and the sometimes pop culture podcaster Louis Virtel.<\/p>\n

In a recent interview, Virtel said fall they must.<\/p>\n

\u201cThere’s always this ongoing conversation on separating the art from the artist,\u201d he said. \u201cAs somebody whose heroes have never turned into sexual predators I find it a pretty mundane conversation. It’s a conversation usually started by men who think the only form of universal genius out there is stuff given to us by men.\u201d<\/p>\n

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