Nico Bolzico speaks: I used to get very jealous

Sharing a photo of his wife pointing to the ring on her finger, Nico proudly wrote, “As you all know my wife is very beautiful, probably the most beautiful girl in the world, that is why she has so many guys proposing to her all the time. The picture shows her reaction every time someone proposes.” (Photo: Nico Bolzico/Facebook)

It is just normal for us, humans, to feel jealous probably often times. Whether you feel envy of a friend who is currently having fun overseas or your sibling whom, you think, your parents love more than you — it is okay to feel that way, but maybe not always.

The same with relationships. It is undoubtedly natural to feel jealous over something may it be over ‘stupid things’ or something that you think can be a ‘threat’ to your relationship with your romantic partner. One example: another guy or girl.

For his a-day-before-Valentine’s Day-post, Nico Bolzico decided to talk about that relationship topic on his social media accounts.

Nico, as we all know, often captures our attention by posting his hilarious pranks to Solenn on his Instagram account. But today, he made everyone notice him as he opens up about his relationship with Solenn in a serious yet humorous way.

Sharing a photo of his wife pointing to the ring on his finger, Nico proudly wrote, “As you all know my wife is very beautiful, probably the most beautiful girl in the world, that is why she has so many guys proposing to her all the time. The picture shows her reaction every time someone proposes.”

He continued, “In line with that, I think it is a good opportunity to discuss how we feel when our Wifezillas talk to another guy.”

Nico recalled that before his beloved wife came to his life, he used to get jealous to the point that he always assumed that any guy who is having a conversation with his past girlfriend was trying to “hit” on her.

“I didn’t believe in friendship between opposite sexes,” he said.

But Nico realized that what he thought was “one million times wrong” because jealousy, he said, only leads to “un-funded fights drama and degradation of the relationship.”

He said if one has trust and respect to his partner, then they should not be worried if they are talking with another guy — well except for Erwan Heusaff, whom Nico said, has “too much sexyness” and is “irresistible” for all.

Nico explained how he understands how it might be difficult for husbands like him to see their precious wives talking with other guys, but he acknowledged that their lifetime partners should also have male friends just like how the husbands are allowed to have female friends.

“If you really love her, then: trust her, give her the freedom she deserves and let her be; this way you will see your relationship getting stronger every day!” he said.

At the end of his post, Nico clarified that he is not speaking for everyone as what he shared was based on what he believed and has experienced.

“I can be wrong,” he said, adding, “If by any means, what I write, say or even think, is not in line with my wife opinion, then my wife opinion should predominate and everything else was wrong, even if that means contradicting, math, physics, gravity, supreme justice or the Pope, she is right; and that my friends, is the Rule #560 of the#BulliedHusdbandsClub hand book.”

Although he said he might not be right, Nico, however, has garnered a lot of positive comments from netizens who also have the same views with him about relationships.

Commenting on Nico’s post, Facebook user Princess Abegail Gonzales said she hopes that every guy nowadays can be understanding as Nico.

“‘Di ‘yung selos dito, selos don. Bawal makipagkaibigan sa lalaki, bawal makipagusap sa lalaki. Paano na lang din ako na nagwo-work sa gym mostly mga ka-work lalaki (Not the type who is jealous all the time. Not allowed to be friends with guys or talk with other men… How about me who works on a gym where most of my colleagues are guys)?” she wrote.

Wanted to be guided more on how to deal with women, netizen Jon Dela Cruz, meanwhile, asked Nico to publish a handbook of Bullied Husbands Club.

“It will save a lot of husbands (even guys in a relationship) from being derailed,” he said.